It is rare to find a woman who does not give importance to her family over her career. If she is found otherwise, she is called headstrong or arrogant. It is hard to digest the fact for a man, to find a Woman in power.
How right(or wrong) is it on part of a woman to quit her job to look after her child. Is it wrong any time for a woman to continue with her job, because financial situation demanded it. Women are never given any choice, they have to work, if they are not secure financially, while a few women, who like to work, will have to choose to stay at home, for the sake of their child.
If we keep aside, the facts(or mere observations) from all the research about kid's development being faster and intelligent, when he or she is with her mother than with a care taker, all women would love to get back to work. As far as I am concerned, it is all in the way, a mother brings up her children, even if she is working or not.
A working mother can bring up, kids, who grow up, learning to be independent, and respect elders and others, without being vain or spoiled. At the same time, a woman who sacrificed her job to stay with her child may also spoil him/her child, by attending to his/her every whim and fancy, because she is always available for granting their wish and thus making them dependent on her, for every little thing.
So, the important factor is the way they are brought up, not the sacrifices a woman makes. In fact, these sacrifices are taken for granted as soon as the kids grow up and get used to having their mother do all their jobs. They seem to think that it is their right to have their mothers attend to them all the time.
How right(or wrong) is it on part of a woman to quit her job to look after her child. Is it wrong any time for a woman to continue with her job, because financial situation demanded it. Women are never given any choice, they have to work, if they are not secure financially, while a few women, who like to work, will have to choose to stay at home, for the sake of their child.
If we keep aside, the facts(or mere observations) from all the research about kid's development being faster and intelligent, when he or she is with her mother than with a care taker, all women would love to get back to work. As far as I am concerned, it is all in the way, a mother brings up her children, even if she is working or not.
A working mother can bring up, kids, who grow up, learning to be independent, and respect elders and others, without being vain or spoiled. At the same time, a woman who sacrificed her job to stay with her child may also spoil him/her child, by attending to his/her every whim and fancy, because she is always available for granting their wish and thus making them dependent on her, for every little thing.
So, the important factor is the way they are brought up, not the sacrifices a woman makes. In fact, these sacrifices are taken for granted as soon as the kids grow up and get used to having their mother do all their jobs. They seem to think that it is their right to have their mothers attend to them all the time.
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